A couple retreat in Amsterdam at the start of the summer? Combined expertise of two couples therapists to ramp up your connection to each other.
Join this unique experience designed to address your issues in a comfortable and confidential setting. Learn effective conflict resolution skills while also learning through observation. And ample time to bring up dreams, hopes and - to exhale.
Enjoy a stress-free, actually enjoyable getaway without the hassle of flights or long travel. Even parents of young kids can join - all for a reasonable price.
What You Can Expect
The One Couple Therapy Retreat in June 2025 is a first-of-its-kind experience designed for couples in and near Amsterdam. Led by seasoned therapists Julika and Naomi—who have helped dozens of couples strengthen their relationships—this retreat offers a structured yet intimate way to reconnect, learn, and grow together. Over two immersive days, you and your partner will engage in:
Systemic therapy – Gain insights through guided conversations as a couple and within a supportive group
Psycho-education – Learn proven relationship strategies with interactive workbooks to continue your growth at home.
What You’ll Explore
What makes couples thrive? – Discover key relationship frameworks backed in research.
The role of cultural factors – Navigate challenges of being from different backgrounds, living as expats, or wanting different things in life.
How to disagree and manage conflict – Understand conflict styles, avoid common pitfalls, and repair after arguments.
How to truly support each other – Strengthen your friendship and create space for meaningful conversations, even in the busiest of times.
How to deepen emotional connection – Bring back the spark, prioritize your relationship, and build lasting rituals of closeness.
How to dream big—together – Design a vision for your shared future, brainstorm life dreams, and shape the life you truly want.
Program Details
9:30 - 18:00 on Friday 13th & Saturday 14th June
Morning: Two sessions (group learning, couple reflection, 1:1 with a therapist)
Mid-morning break with delicious and healthy refreshments
One-hour three-course lunch followed by mini stroll / siesta
Afternoon: Two sessions (group learning, couple reflection, 1:1 with a therapist)
Afternoon break with delicious and healthy refreshments
Wrap up, reflections & send off
What’s Included
Two days of expert-led couples therapy (group, 1:2, or 1:1) with Julika Lomas (Gottman Level 3, registered systemic therapist) and Dr. Naomi Gibson (licensed Clinical Psychologist)
Healthy refreshments (tea, coffee, cake, fruit)
Daily three-course lunch
Workshop materials for note-taking and private reflection
Pre-Retreat Assessment Call (30 min).
Post-Retreat Call (30 min)
Gottman Checkup (worth €50 per couple) + free retake after 6+ months
Uninterrupted connection time with your partner through guided exercises and breaks
Not Included
Pre-Retreat Assessment Session (50-60 min, required for new couples, €100 per session)
Transport (we suggest coming together on your bikes!)
Accommodation, though a luxurious overnight stay at Villa Oldenhoff is available
The Facilitators & Who’ll Be There
Julika & Naomi, two familiar faces that personally welcome you into a new setting, new group and new experience
Villa Oldenhoff staff, ensuring a seamless experience
3-5 other couples (total of 8-12 people) - confidentiality is a priority
Cows in the surrounding pastures
Julika Lomas is a Gottman Therapy Level 3, registered NVRG systemic & relationship therapist
We both run thriving private practices in Amsterdam where we support individuals and couples to overcome challenges and feel more connected.
Dr Naomi Gibson is a registered Clinical Psychologist.
Sign up, Costs & Cancellation
Email us at onecoupleretreat@gmail.com with your interest
Get Your Questions Answered. We’ll reply with details or invite you to a free 10-min info call, or a Pre-Retreat Assessment Session (50-60 min, €100 for new clients).
Secure Your Spot
Once you're ready, make a down payment to reserve your place.Accommodation (Optional, but Recommended). Book a Friday night stay at the venue directly—early booking is advised!
Free Info Zoom Session (April 8, 8:00-8:30 PM)
Presentation-style, anonymous login possible. Ask questions via chat, meet the facilitators, and get live answers.
Costs
€1850 per couple (21% VAT may apply)
€100 per couple for new clients (pre-retreat assessment)
Early signup (before April 7, 2025) €1799 per couple
Cancellations
Full refund until April 14, 2025
60% refund (6 weeks before until May 2)
30% refund (5 weeks before until May 16)
No refund (after May 16), unless your spot is filled—then 50% credit toward a future retreat (valid for 1 year, not guaranteed) - Full policy here
The Setting & Rooms
Disclaimer
The retreat alone is surely not a guaranteed cure for a relationship that is structurally weak
The retreat is a booster and marathon of couple therapy and psychoeducation to accelerate the hard work of your every day joy and labor such as the labeling of your needs and feelings, taking responsibility and soothing yourself
The Pre-Retreat Assessment Sessions will screen applying couples for the right fit and lay out constraints and expectations. We hope to hear from you to discuss your interest confidentially in such a session.
Photo credit in order of appearance:
1) Priscilla Du Preez 2) Houcine Ncib 3) youssef naddam 4) We-Vibe Toys 5) Ryunosuke Kikuno (all five on Unsplash).
Photos of Julika & Naomi: each their own.
Photo of Villa Oldenhoff from website itself https://villaoldenhoff.nl/